That attorney kept yelling at me that you did not want a relationship with me, over and over, very close up to me. He said you did not like me and didn't want to see me. He was working for her, not you. But, at least a person should know the rules, if they are to follow them. Maybe if the "powers that be" are told that my new friend needs to be a help with sorting out a breast cancer diagnosis, they will drop any further wait period (if that is what it is). I really do need the support. If my friend asked, it might work.