I am sure that horrible man is not working for you, but for the person close to you. It is certainly why I was beaten up so much; it is my punishment for your kindness toward me. Some people truly feel that others should kiss their butts and be subserviant to them, just like that asshole in the WH. I think it is a sign of insecurity and a lack of self-worth....besides the fact that they are jerk assholes who enjoy hurting people.