Profound detachment allows the narcissist to use his /her emotions in a very punitive way. Fundamentally cold and extremely indifferent to the feelings and concerns of others, the narcissist is knee deep in his /her arsenal of mental dirty tricks. With one primary aim in sight, the target becomes the prey of a boundless barrage of frightening, mind numbing mental gymnastics. Always in the moment and spontaneous in design, the opportunist wants to deprive you of your most precious assets. Aiming at demeaning and undermining your confidence in yourself, narcissistic wounds are meant to achieve your total capitulation. Some call the narcissist a con. Others call the narcissist a trickster. Often the narcissist is simply an actor without a moral fiber in his soul. Being attracted as a function of his envy, the narcissist will move from charming lover to spiteful opponent. You must lose for the narcissist to be fed a dose of his vengeance. This artificially created psychodrama is bathed in a pose of perfect indifference. The unsuspecting target, subdued easily by such shallow charmers, becomes the unwitting enabler in this house of horrors. The narcissist is searching for a resolution to his/her dilemma. His /her motivation to strike is, at heart, an attempt at liberation from the torment of an eternally unresolved conflict between superiority and inferiority. Confusion and excitement are two different sides of the same coin. Once you are possessed by the narcissist, you will lose your capacity for common sense, your sense of proportionality, and your moral judgement. Don’t bite the bait!
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