I have to say, that with people who are apologetic and kind, I hold no grudges. Maybe I am stupid, but I have a hard time holding a grudge against someone who is sincerely apologetic. If they persist in making life hell, then my kindness rather seeps away.
I am not happy with time waste and this has been it. It would have been lovely to have not had the interference, but can't cry over spilled mile, but make it better now.