I give people chance after chance, but the people who did this miserable thing are made of a scary lack of concern...even for themselves; they are that narcissistic. It seems like an oxymoron in behavior, or rational thinking. They want what they want, even at the risk of their own safety, it is hard to understand and hard to deal with them. They would rather go down swinging, than feel that they had lost. Unbelievable.