I want to know what YOU think about things and how YOU feel. I respect you and want to know you better. I mean, yes, I would like my input on things too and know all avenues are being considered, especially when it comes to health, but I am reasonable, not pushy, or demanding, that is not my nature. Besides, you are intelligent and reasonable and not mean to me and have my best interests at heart; the others don't care, nor look at me as an individual. I put my faith in you. I gave you health care powers of attorney and over everything else, although that creepy Mr. Ed took the papers out of the mail. He took anything I mailed.