I am sure that some of the mystery surrounding this thing was to leave options open. No matter what you think of me, doesn't mean we must never have a pleasant acquaintance and maybe even friendship. I am easygoing, except when I worry about someone due to the cruel actions of others I perceive to be predatory. You can always count on me to be a true friend.
As I have said, I may love you with all my heart, but it should not be intimidating. Love is above bad, it wants only good...real love, that is....of course, it could not be called love if it were anything but caring for the best for someone and letting them feel the freedom to choose their own way.