You know I will always have my own opinion, but I will always defer to your wishes on anything. I am not champing at the bit wanting revenge, that is not important to me. If I am able to see you and have the freedom to know you as much as you want, what more could I want. I am  someone who feels society should be respected in most orderly, legal ways, but in my own personal life, I am not a tough person. I forgive easily, even after such heinous treatment.....but it is selective. They hurt you and they are toast.